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Insecure in brand brand new relationship. Believe that’s how I’m feeling.

Insecure in brand brand new relationship. Believe that’s how I’m feeling.

I’m 49, divorced as well as in brand new relationship (8 months) Progressing nicely and he’s lovely but We have problems with extreme relationship anxiety that will be really getting even even worse longer I’m seeing him. Terrified from it no longer working down, have problems with low self confidence and a part that is big of seems it could be easier simply to end things now to stop myself getting hurt. An element of the problem is we reside over one hour or more aside so weekends must be prepared and spontaneous social gatherings not possible. We have a great time but he finds it impossible to sleep in the same bed as me (he claims he gets restless legs) so we end up sleeping apart and I miss the closeness and can’t sleep for worrying when we are together. By the time we’ve invested two nights together I’m utterly exhausted and invested and feel really down between visits. We now have mentioned residing together however in a “couple of years” and we truthfully don’t understand how I’ll cope with the period that is interim. We both have demanding jobs and older kids at home so lots to focus around. We can’t help experiencing that i will be feeling less anxious right now nevertheless the stress is perhaps all consuming and I’m miserable for most of the right time I’m maybe not with him. I understand this really isn’t a appealing quality but I can’t appear to shake it well.

In the event that anxiety of stress is causing you to be exhausted after hanging out together, i am struggling to see any pleased future for you tbh.